The etiquette surrounding wedding announcements shifts when the parents of the marrying individual are no longer together. Traditionally, wedding invitations list the names of the hosts, most often the parents. In instances where parents are divorced, the manner in which their names are presented requires careful consideration to ensure clarity, respect, and the avoidance of potential conflict. The wording can range from including both parents, each on separate lines, to listing only the parent who is contributing financially or primarily hosting the event. For example, an invitation might state: “Mr. John Smith and Ms. Jane Doe request the honour of your presence” if both parents are jointly hosting.
The precise presentation of parental names on such formal announcements is significant. It underscores familial relationships and acknowledges the contributions of those involved in the celebration. Historically, the inclusion of both parents, regardless of marital status, has been a gesture of inclusivity and a sign of familial harmony. However, in contemporary society, recognizing the complexities of modern family structures necessitates flexibility. The choice of wording becomes important to avoid inadvertently causing offense or discomfort to family members, particularly the divorced parents themselves. This consideration reflects a shift towards prioritizing the comfort and well-being of all involved in the wedding.
